The Beautiful Chaos of Juggling Motherhood and a Career

Being a mother of three young children is an adventure all on its own. Add a part-time career as a hairdresser, and you’ve got yourself a life that’s constantly buzzing with activity, joy, and, let’s be honest—chaos. Lots of chaos. It’s a role that is as fulfilling as it is exhausting, and it’s definitely not for the weak. But for those of us who choose to dive into both motherhood and a career, the rewards, growth, and memories are unparalleled. And as someone who loves both family and the creative world of hairstyling, this is my unique, messy reality.

The Constant Balancing Act

Having three young kids means your life is naturally busy, with each day bringing something new. School runs, appointments, snack-making, naps, tantrums, and bedtime routines—motherhood by itself is a full-time job. But when you add a career into the mix, particularly one as a hairdresser, where clients need personalized care and schedules are sometimes unpredictable, it requires you to be a master of time management and flexibility.

One of the biggest challenges is that while my work hours may be flexible, my children’s needs are not. This means that if I have to schedule clients, I have to strategically slot them into the precious hours when my children are either at school or occupied with something that doesn’t require my constant attention. This usually means early mornings, late nights, or working during naps for the little ones.

Thankfully, my passion for the beauty industry fuels me, even on the busiest days. Here in Missoula, being a part of such a supportive beauty community helps me find encouragement and energy to keep going, both as a stylist and a mom.

Carving Out Time for Creativity and Connection

Working as a hairdresser, I’m blessed to meet people from all walks of life. My clients often become friends, sharing their stories and lives with me while I work on their hair. Being a stylist in Missoula lets me blend my love for creativity and connection, offering my clients more than just a haircut. I provide them with a small sanctuary from their own busy lives—a moment to relax, chat, and feel beautiful.

These times are valuable to me because, as a mom, it’s easy to lose touch with yourself. Doing hair brings me back to my creative core, helping me feel like "Nicole" outside of being "mom." It’s a grounding experience that reminds me who I am, and that is essential when you’re constantly giving to others. I know that when I return home to my children, I can give them my best self because I’ve had time to nurture my own passions and energy.

Finding Fulfillment Amid the Chaos

At the end of each day, exhaustion is part of the package—but so is a sense of pride. There’s something deeply fulfilling about managing both my career and my family, even if it’s a bit chaotic. It’s rewarding to look back and see how my work supports my family and to see my kids growing, knowing they are part of this journey with me.

The path isn’t perfect, and every day brings new challenges. But this balance between motherhood and being a hairdresser, this beautiful chaos, makes me feel alive, capable, and grateful. It’s a life that’s filled with love, creativity, and lots of hair—something I wouldn’t trade for the world. So here’s to all the moms out there doing the best they can! You are a badass, and every effort you make matters, whether it’s at home or in the world beyond.

Xoxo,

Nicole